Mediumship and Beyond

Happy New Year.

I know there is a lot of illness around at this time of year. This is particularly so in the UK as there is so much flu around. More so than ever because of the bad winter we are having.

There are also a lot of people struggling with serious, and even terminal, illness too.  My heart goes out to them and their families. Christmas time and new year are particularly poignant for them.

There are lots of people asking for and needing healing. To them I send healing thoughts and prayers. I ask for your help too.  If we all send out positive healing thoughts to all those in need, we may just help improve their situation.

With spiritulal healing it is not all about cures you know. It is about improving the quality of life. Relieving pain and suffering in what ever way spirit can help.

So lets begin now and keep sending it in whatever spare moments we have. Send out your love. It costs nothing but is worth so much. Enjoy the experience. You will benefit too.

Today, our dog Gabi is in good spirits.  She is once again her happy, cocky self.

Today, the vet could not believe that this was the same dog who was at deaths door on Christmas Day.  Yes she has stitches the full length of her tum and her groin too. Yes she is on meds.  But, oh what a difference a day and Spirit Healing make.

I know we have a good vet and he did remarkable surgey in an emergency situaltion. But I know that her quick recovery has been helped by spirit healing.  Healing and medical intervention go hand in hand.

Please keep sending your healing thoughts and prayers. Thank you so much.

We have a gorgeous Cocker Spaniel called Gabi.  She is 7 years old and part of the family. Christmas Day she became life threateningly ill. She had a strangulated hernia.

We have a great vet who decided at midnight that she must have surgery or she would be dead by today. It was a really difficult time.

I asked Spirit for help and healing. I asked that she receive all the healing she would need to get her through the night.  I prayed and left her in the hands of Ian the vet.

Today we picked Gabi up and brought her safely home.  She is still poorly but the surgery was a success. The vet said it was only his second case in over 30 years of working with animals. We are so lucky she survived.

I am certain we had the help of spirit and I know they can help animals as well as humans. She will take time to recover, so I ask you all to send healing for her. Thank You.

I have been asked ‘What is the significance of orange when giving a colour, ribbon or flower reading?’

I find, through years of experience, that colour is a very personal thing.  Most readers like to have their own specific meanings for each colour.  For instance, to one person the colour green might signify fresh fields, whereas to another it might mean peace or peacefulness.

To some blue is a healing colour but to others it is a calming colour but also can be viewed as cold or coldness.  As you can see it is something that you cannot predict unless you have had the same reader previously.

When I am reading colour I always have the same personal meanings for each colour, and I never change that.  Sometimes my meanings vary slightly, depending on what other colours they are chosen with. A bright green chosen with a bright yellow would be very different to a bright green chosen with a black.

As for orange, and the question which led to this post, I find it donates a person who is a healer of some sort.  This can be a spiritual healer, although I would expect to find another colour with it in this case.  It could also be a doctor, nurse, carer or therapist,  or even a person caring for a loved one.

Healing and caring cover quite a few professions and jobs.  It may be a carer who is caring out of love, or duty, not by choice of career.  Get your sitter to think out of the box here. But I am sure you get the gist of the subject.

If you are just beginning to read colour, you have a choice.  You can sit and look at the colours and decide how you feel about each one.  This should help you decide your meanings.  Once your psyche has taken on the meanings then your sitters will be inspired to choose the right colours for the message they need.

If you are having a colour reading from a psychic or medium then it is important for you to forget your own meanings for the time of your reading.  If you were led by your own meanings the reading would not work out properly. It is no use thinking that although your reader said blue meant healing, but you know it means new love.  It will not work.

Above all you need to remember that colour is personal and your meanings may well not match another’s.  The important thing here is: the reader’s meanings are always correct, not the sitter’s.

There are a lot of us who cannot get out and about at the minute because of bad road conditions caused by snow and ice.

Your time need not be wasted. You can always spend a little time sending out positive healing thoughts to those who are unfortunately ill or in despair.

We all feel better when we have tried to help others. So here is my suggestion for a rainy or snowy day or night. Use your time constructively.

Go into a quiet place and put on some relaxing music. Open up your psychic centres and sit in the power.

Direct all the energy – which you build up – as healing, either for someone you know or for those on my healing list. Your evening will not be wasted.

You will be rewarded in ways you cannot expect.

I am sorry but I have had to cancel tonight’s Awareness and Development Circle.  The weather is really bad with snow everywhere.

My street is barely passable. My son went down into the village and it took one and half hours to get back up the road with the car.  I wouldn’t want anyone to be stuck and not be able to make it home tonight.  It is snowing quite heavily right now too.

Hopefully we will be together again next Tuesday, God and the weather willing.  In the meantime if you have nothing else to do tonight here is my suggestion:

Go into a quiet place and put on some relaxing music. Open up and sit in the power.  Direct all the energy – which you build up – as healing, either for someone you know or for those on my healing list. Your evening will not be wasted.

See you next week!

It is many years since I was invited to my first home circle. I remember it lovingly and cherish all the time we spent developing our psychic gifts together. Several well known mediums started in the same circle.

I met some mediums through my frequent visits to spiritualist churches. They invited me along to sit with them in their weekly home circle. We began at the same time each week and sat for a couple of hours.

The circle would begin with an opening prayer, asking for spirit to draw close to us and for our guides and guardian angels to help teach us. We would then meditate for a while until one of us had a contact with a spirit, who wanted to communicate with us.

We would take it in turns to impart the various communications. The evidence of life after death was the important part we always asked for. We were very hard on ourselves and worked harder to get the proof needed. We never gave trivial things, only the information that was really important. We did not want to waste any valuable time.

My first communication in that circle was one of clairsentience. I kept sensing the smell of a hospital and couldn’t shake it off. I asked my guide to give me more information and she duly obliged by giving me names and further unique items of interest by way of clairvoyance. The recipient of this message had in fact been visiting a loved one in hospital and the names I gave were relatives of the sick person. The rest of the information was directly linked to the person.

I was elated to have made such a good link with the Spirit World and so excited each week when circle night came around. I developed at a really good pace in that circle and have never looked back.

I recommend a home circle to anyone who wants to develop their psychic gifts.  You can start with just a couple of friends and others will be led to your group when the time is right. Spirit have a way of making these things come together.

The main priority when sitting for development is honesty and dedication. Always, in your opening prayer, ask for the highest and only the truth. Ask for the best evidence possible of life after death. At the end of your circle say a closing prayer, thanking spirit for their help and their love.

The end of the evening’s circle can also be used to send out absent healing to all those in need. Close your eyes and send out your love and kind healing thoughts. Thoughts are living things and you will often be surprised by the good results.  It is a great way to give a little back to the spirits who help you develop.

If you would like to make any comment on this subject or need advice about it, please contact me. There is a link on this blog and also a contact link on my web site.

It never ceases to surprise me the lengths spirit go to prove that there is life after death, and that they are still around us, watching over loved ones.

I just gave a private reading and I was really impressed with the proof my sitter’s loved ones brought to her.  They obviously are watching over her and seem to know everything about her too.

Apart from loved ones, spirit even brought in a dog, which she was very happy about.  Dogs always come around when they know you are in need of comfort.  That’s what they did on the material plane and they can still do it now.

I also like the way spirit brought in ‘memory joggers’, as I call them.  Whenever my sitter says no to anything, I ask the spirits to bring in a memory jogger to help them place the person spirit are talking about.  It stops the sitter thinking of the wrong person.

All in all, the message contained a lot of evidence, and a lot of words of comfort. I am sure my sitter will feel much easier in her grief than she did before.

It is a sad fact that nowadays, in the UK, spiritual healers are governed by the EU rules.  This may seem like a good thing, but having a certificate issued by the governing body does not necessarily guarantee that the ‘healer’ has a healing gift.

A healing gift is a natural gift which can be developed to help people.  An empathetic nature, compassion, and a love of people is essential to make the gift work. A certificate and the urge to make money from the sick and suffering doesn’t work in my experience.

In the same way that a gifted medium has to develop their gift of clairvoyance, a healer must do the same, giving their time, love, and energy.  It can take years to develop the gift properly, yet in two years you can gain a qualification from the healing bodies and the powers that be,  but it does not give you the gift. It only shows that you can go through the motions.

When a naturally gifted healer puts their hands on your shoulders, or above your head, you should feel the energy which comes from their gift.  It is a wonderful feeling! No certificate can replace this.

Now, if you have the certificate and the natural gift, all well and good. I have known healers who have a wonderful gift and healers who have a certificate. I know some wonderful healers who have both.

Choose your healer with care. Ask around your family and friends for recommendations.

Healing is a wonderful gift.  Although some people are trained healers, we all have the ability to to send out healing thoughts to those in need.  You don’t need a certificate. You don’t need training. You just need to care.

What a wonderful gift healing is. It is a natural process, a God given gift.  Although now, because of the EEC, healers need to have certificates to give hands on spiritual healing. Especially if you give the healing in a Spiritualist church.  This puzzles me.  Do they give healing in other churches and if they do, do they have to have certificates?

There is too often, bias towards Spiritualists.  Especially where healing is concerned.  It is impossible to harm anyone by standing with your hands on their shoulders, allowing yourself  to be used as a channel for the healing power from spirit.

To send out Absent Healing, you need no training and no cerificates and it works wonders for the recipient.  All you need is compassion. If you have this, it is easy to give.  Here is my simple method.

Sit quietly in contemplative mood.  Allow your mind to visualise a big blue cloud of healing energy.  Picture the person who you wish to send healing to.  See them lying on a bed in the centre of the room.  Visualise your blue healing cloud going toward the bed.  Let the blue cloud surround the bed and the patient.

Keep this image with you for as long as you feel relaxed. Then let the image dissipate.

I am not saying that the healing will cure. I am not guaranteeing anything. But, you may find that the patient benefits in some way. Some say they feel free from pain. Some feel relaxed and at peace.   Who knows what help you may give them.

Remember, positive thoughts are living thoughts.  Healing thoughts are healing!  In whatever way the healing works, it is a step in the right direction. Loving, caring thoughts are never wasted.  Give some today!  You will find you feel wonderful after giving. You always get rewarded in some way, when you give unconditionally.