I have found that headaches often occur when novices sit for spirit and build up the power. The problem can be that they don’t then use the power they have built up. This can cause a headache.

My first realisation of this was when I first began to develop. I sat in a meditation group every week and built up the power. The problem was that I didn’t understand what I was doing.  As I did not realise I was in tune with spirit and that they were trying to communicate with me, I did not use up the power which had built.

Every week I went home with a terrible headache and my hubby would say that if going to church gave me headache I should stop going.  He did not understand, but then neither did I.

Once I began to understand what was happening, I was able to do something about it.  If it is happening to you there is something you can do too.

If you have not yet learned to communicate with spirit and don’t know how to use up the power, you can ask, at the end of your session, for any power which is left to be used for healing.  Here is exactly what I do at the end of any session, be it a workshop, class, or personal sitting.

Say a prayer of thanks and then say to spirit ‘May any power left in this room go out as healing to where you know it is needed the most’.

If you have someone whom you know needs the healing you can send it to them.  To do this:  visualise the person lying on a bed. Visualise a gorgeous cloud of blue healing power. Send this cloud to the person and let it envelop them. Stay a while in the state and then thank spirit before drawing away.

Psychic headache may sound weird but its not at all.  Use up the power and lose the headache. Or better still, make sure you use the power wisely and then you don’t get the headache.  Enjoy your work!

You can have lots of qualifications and certificates or diplomas, but in my humble opinion they are useless withought compassion.

Many people are under the misapprehension that spiritual healers are faith healers.  They are not. You do not have to have faith in order to be healed or to give healing. One thing that spiritualism does not ask you to do, is to take anything on faith.  The Spiritualist religion is founded on ‘proving all things’.

Sometimes, regardless of healing and treatment, a child has a miraculous recovery from a serious illness.  They didn’t have faith that they would be healed. They did not understand, because they were too young.

The same thing is true of animals. An animal cannot have a faith to believe in, to ensure their recovery from illness. Sure, they trust the vet or his nurse, but isn’t that because they can sense their compassion. Animals don’t have the type of brain that allows them a faith, as in the religious sense.

I am not saying that to have a faith is wrong. By all means have faith in whatever you believe. There are many good healers who are involved in faiths of all types and faith does not prevent healing.

Compassion though, is what is needed not faith, for healing to work.  If we all had more compassion and shared it with others more often, then the world would be a happier and healthier place.

I am interested in the views of others as usual and look forward to receiving your comments.

Here’s to all the compassionate folk out there who give their all to make others feel better. May they forever be granted good health.

 Sara is now a campaigner for childrens’  rights. She works tirelessly to defend children from the  paedophiles who prey on them.  She is very focused and never gives up even though she has suffered severe health problems herself.

Sara had a stroke after brain surgery and now has a great loss of feeling in her left side.  Nothing though will stop her efforts to help children.  Her dedication is admirable and if anyone deserves a medal then it is Sara.

What Sara needs at this time is lots of spiritual healing.  Healing to help boost her strength and to help her body keep going.  Healing to ease her troubled mind and give her relaxation and much needed sleep to help her recovery.

Sara hasn’t asked for this.  She is selfless.  All the more reason I ask all you healers out there to send out absent healing.  Those of you who do not feel they are healers can still help by sending out love and positive thoughts.  Lets try and make a difference too.

Thank You all!

The sort of things I am thinking of are Reiki, massage, Indian head massage, Reflexology, crystal healing and many others.

These are called alternative therapies, but I think they are additional therapies.  Therapies which soothe the body and mind without interfering with traditional treatments given by your doctor.

Anything which helps soothe and relax you will obviously help the healing process of your mind and body.  If the mind is calm and relaxed then the body heals quicker.

If you wish to partake of any of these therapies there are endless websites where you can find out more about them.  You can also ask friends and colleagues if they have tried any and what did they think of them.

Spiritual Healing is another, very important, therapy.  Given that you get in touch with a really good, compassionate healer, you can be soothed and relaxed whilst sitting on a chair.  Your local spiritualist church healing group can help but also the SNU website is full of healing advice.

When you find a good therapist or healer, tell your your friends and please email me so that I can share your experiences with many others.

People from all over the World send names of those loved ones in need of healing to me via my website email. These names are listed on my site and there are hundreds of healers around the world who send out absent healing to them on a regular basis.  There have been very positive results in some cases. It is always worthwhile.

It matters not what the person is ailing from or what has made them ill.  We all deserve healing.  Even those of us who do not lead a caring life. The mind is often in need of healing too.  We should not judge. It is not our place to. 

Thoughts are living things and along with your prayers they are carried on the cosmos to where they are needed. It matters not if you are religious and if you are, it matters not where your religion takes you.

Suffice it to say that there is a higher source at work and healing is possible through prayer and kind healing thoughts. Even when a persons time on this earth plane is coming to an end, healing can help ease the pain and the suffering of passing.  Ease their journey to the spirit world and make them feel safe.

Please keep sending in the names and those on the list will continue to receive our love and support every day.

My plea to Healers everywhere is to join in our healing events and believe that everything is possible.

I needed the doctors and the surgeons, the nurses and the therapists.  I needed my family more than anything.  When I started to recover from surgery and came home, I realised I needed more help. The sort of help that the hospital does not provide. 

I eventually cracked up.  The pills I was on made me really ill.  I didn’t know myself and was becoming afraid to go out and to live my life.  It was then that I turned to spirit and finally asked for spiritual healing.

Being a medium you would think that this was the first thing I would have done.  With all that I believe you would assume that I wouldn’t be afraid.  But I am human and I was afraid.  I am just like you.

I have a wonderful friend who is a healer, John.  He has a full time job, but he gave a lot of his spare time to give me healing.  He came to our home and gave hands on healing, and when he could not be here he sent absent healing.  It proved to be the catalyst that was needed for my recovery.

His lovely wife Wendy and their daughter also sent absent healing to me.  Even in my darkest moments spirit gave us proof that they were working through John to help me.  Both John and I had spiritual happenings that proved to us it was spirit.  We could not doubt.

Now it is two years along and I am doing really well. I have a lot to be thankful for.  Not least to the surgeon and medical profession, but also to spirit for giving us the gift of spiritual healing.

I recommend Healing to everyone. It cannot possibly  hurt you, but may prove to be invaluable for you , as it was for me.  It cannot replace the medics but in conjunction with them it is wonderful.

For more information on Spiritual Healing and healers, see the SNU, Spiritualist National Union, website.  They will help you find a healer near your home.  You can also find healers at your local spiritualist church.

Email me if you need more help.

Of course the main thing to say here is that you should never just have spiritual healing.  You should always see your doctor in times of  illness and pain.  Spiritual  healing is a always a supplement to conventional medics.

A healer who promises a cure is not telling you the truth and should be avoided at all costs.  No healer can promise to make you better.  Not even a medic would promise you that.

Having said all that, healing can be a great source of help and comfort.  There are many stories among healers and the public about the wonderful results healing has brought about. 

Two years ago I was very ill, and although I needed doctors and surgeons I still had healing from my spiritual healer.  I found it very comforting.  And, when I felt most down and alone in my illness, it was spirit that gave me the proof that my healing was working. It was a wonderful spiritual moment.

Some ask for healing for loved ones,  but if the loved one then passes to spirit, they think the healing hasn’t worked.  This is not true either.

Healing can bring relief from pain and sleeplessness. It can help you to relax and to stop feeling afraid.  Sometimes it can help to ease things whilst your medication cures you.  In whatever way it works it is truly of benefit.

Sometimes the patient passes to spirit, but their final moments may be less fraught and painless thanks to the healing they have received.  If their time on earth is over they have to go, it is a fact of life.

The healing helps when a person is taking their transition to the higher side of life.  It keeps them calmer and helps them and their relatives.  If you ask for prayers and absent healing to be sent to them it DOES make a difference.

Healing will not stop them passing over but it will ease their way and their journey.  It will also have a profound effect on the relatives,  if their loved one is in less pain as they are passing.

If you need a healer you can find one through your local spiritualist church.  Or you can look at the SNU website.  The SNU has a list of qualified healers.

If you would like any more information on this subject please email me at this site.

Some like to meditate before tuning in to the spirit world.  Others may like to pray.  Some like to tune into their spirit guide and ask for their help.

Personally I like to pray and ask for my guides to come close and work with me.  I ask them to allow my sitter’s spirit loved ones to come through and bring them some proof of survival.

I tune in to a higher level of consciousness so that I can work with spirit.  By the time my sitter arrives I am well prepared to give the reading. 

During the reading I communicate with my sitter, my guide, and the spirits.  There is usually a 3 way conversation.  It can become rather complicated at times but if I stay with the higher level of consciousness it works out well.

When my reading is over I always ask spirit to use up any left over energy as healing.

It is amazing how many people are a bit afraid to have a reading with a medium. They think they will be haunted or that they will take a ghost home with them.  But tell them it is a flower reading, or a ribbon reading, and they cannot wait.

Colour takes away the fear and adds a touch of amazement.  I still communicate with spirits to give my sitter proof of life after death. After all, I am a spiritualist medium.  I intersperse the colour reading, or the flower reading, with the information that their spirit loved ones are bringing. It is an excellent combination.

Sending absent healing using colour is a wonderful way to use healing gifts.  And as I wrote about yesterday, it can be used to give yourself a healing boost too.

Have you noticed how different you feel when you suddenly wear different colours to your norm? Try it tomorrow.  Even wearing the colours has an impact on your life.  Go to sleep at night thinking of a nice calming colour and you will have sweet dreams. Visualise wrapping the colour around you.

Fill your house with colour and add flowers when you can.  Your whole mood can be helped with the right choice.  Have you any colour stories to share with us? Email me here if you have.

As healers, we daily send out healing either by hands on or absently.  We send out our love and our prayers and ask that those in need receive the healing power of spirit.  Such a lot of positive energy is sent around the world in this very unselfish manner.

In order to be able to use your psychic gifts and healing powers you need to be fit and well yourself.  Yoiu can ask for healing for yourself especially if you cannot get to see a hands on healer.

In the same manner that I suggested you use to send out absent healing (see earlier post) you can use the healing enegy to give yourself the healing treatment.

Sit in a calm and peaceful atmosphere.  Send out a prayer to spirit asking that your healing guides may come around you.  Close you eyes and visualise yourself lying on a bed in the middle of the room.  Build up a large cloud of blue healing energy and send it to the image of yourself on the bed.

Let the blue energy envelop the image completely and let it stay there for a while.  Send out your loving thoughts and prayers, just as you do for others.

When you feel the energy leaving thank spirit for their help and their love.  Say a closing prayer and sit for a while until you feel ready for the day.

I know you will feel the benefit. Spirit want healing for us all.  There is no need for anyone to feel selfish for needing healing.  Enjoy it, and when it is over and you feel whole again you may send out healing to others once more.