Mediumship and Beyond

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It was last week that I ran my Graphology workshop for our Swiss guests. And this week I gave some of them private readings.  The event was run and organised by Pat Campbell, a well know international medium who lives in Sheffild.

The Swiss  mostly spoke in German, which meant we  had to have an interpreter. This was a new thing for myself. But I found it thoroughly enjoyable.

The guests threw themselves into the workshop with enthusiasm and gusto.  We had a lovely day and it was really nice getting to know them all.

The readings I gave were warmly appreciated,  particularly by one lady in particular, Emmie.  Emmie said that she had been waiting for particular evidence for a long time. She had been going from medium to medium in the hope of getting the proof .  Emmie told me that I was the only medium who had been able to give her that proof.  She was beside herself with happiness.

The Swiss party were leaving Sheffield for home this morning. So yesterday evening we all went out together for dinner and drinks. We had a wonderful time.

I have so much enjoyed my participation in their week of workshops. I am sure they will all turn out to be good mediums and the language will never be a problem for them.  Graphology is not of course a psychic tool but we used our psychic ability to make it different and to give them as much practice as possible.

If they enjoyed it as much as I did, they will have gone home very happy and looking forward to coming over again.

This is the most heralded film from director Clint Eastwood. It stars Matt Damon, he of the wooden face!  He is always expressionless and this was most apparent in this film.

I so looked forward to this film. I thought it was going to try and persuade people that there is more to life!  But I was sadly very wrong.

The film drifts about aimlessly. There is little plot and poor acting. Not least of all from the two young boys who featured in it. Well, they appeared in it.  Am I being too harsh? I don’t think so.

There was no important middle to this script. It is so badly written that in places it makes no sense at all. Why did I waste the price of the DVD?

As for the hereafter – it had very little to do with the subject except that people died. It seemed to me like it was a book that had not been adapted very well.  Cannot understand why Eastwood even considered it. Maybe he is getting a tad too old to be objective. Or maybe he just doesn’t care anymore.

Save your money or buy yourself something worthwhile.

This is to remind you

Whitham Road Church, in Sheffield, is having a Psychic Fair next Saturday.

The event runs from 11am and ends at 4pm.

There will be mediums giving short readings £5

Tarot and Angel Card readers  £5

Private Readings with myself and Pat Campbell. £10

Taster sessions of Reiki at £3

Free sessions of Spiritual Healing (donation only)

New age stall

Hand made greet cards

Refreshments are available too

Everyone is Welcome and entrance is just £1

Further information is available from church or you may email myself at the link on theis page

When a loved one has passed over to the spirit world, I know all you want to do is feel them, and hold them, and talk to them just as before.  It is no longer possible to feel their physical presence or see their physical body but it is still possible to communicate with them albeit through another person.

You may be able to learn to do this yourself with practice, or you may find out that you can do it already.  If not, then you can still get communication from them via a good medium.  You can do this by going to see one privately, on the recommendation of a trusted friend or relative.  Otherwise, you could go along to a meeting at a spiritualist church or hall where a medium is demonstrating clairvoyance.

If you plump for the private consultation, then you are more likely to get a longer reading.  This reading may or may not include a message from your recently ‘lost’ loved one.  Sometimes when loved ones first pass over they are unable to communicate.  It may take them a while to adjust to their new circumstances before they are ready to get in touch.

If it is not possible for the recently passed over loved to communicate themselves, they may pass communication to you via another spirit personality.  It all depends how much evolved the spirit was before it’s earthly existence.  Some already know how to communicate and therefore they get in touch pretty quickly.  If they had no experience, they will have to learn, much the same as we have to learn here.  Therefore, you may have to wait a while.

When you go for a consult, it is no good asking for just the one person to come through, as you cannot call up any spirit.  You have to ask for communication and then wait and see who comes through.  In my experience, it is best not to get into any conversation with the medium before your reading.  Wait until afterwards to ask any questions and before divulging any information.

Any medium worth their salt would not ask you any questions.  It would get in the way.  A medium has to keep a clear head and so anything you talk about is a hindrance.  Just say yes, no, or, I do not know what you mean, in answer to anything the medium says.  It is best for all three of you, you, the medium, and the spirit entity in the long run.

If you choose not to go for the private reading then you could go along to a meeting and the medium may come to you and pass on the communication from spirit.  Again, do not feed the medium, just keep your responses short and to the point as I have suggested above.

I am not suggesting that you live in the past, nor that you replace the living with the dead, Neither do I suggest that you don’t move on with your life.  What I am suggesting, is that you come to a realisation that we are all spirit and that as spirit we can all communicate with each other, albeit in a different way than on the earth plain.

We all are SPIRIT and came here to this earthly life, from our home in the Spirit World, to learn the lessons that only human life could teach us, in order to facilitate our eternal evolution.  When our lessons are learned and our time is up, we go back home. However long or however short the earthly time.  We have no say in that.

Remember, there is no beginning and no end to communication, or to life.  Life is everlasting.

For further information on this subject please email me at the link on this page.

I have been asked if it is spirits who tickle your face when in a spirit circle or church. I gather the person asking has had this experience.

When we sit for spirit, we build up an energy. This energy is what we use to work with spirit. Sometimes this energy can be felt. It may feel like you are being gently tickled. It sometimes feels as though your hair is being lightly touched. It is often described as a cobweb feeling.  This is the energy as gets stronger in order for us to work.

Sometimes though, we ask our spirit guides for proof of who they are. Or we might ask a spirit loved one to let us know it is them, or that they are around us.  The you may feel their response as a soft tickling sensation.

When my grandma comes through she strokes my cheek and when my sister comes around she strokes the other cheek. One of my guides seems to stroke my hair. But I always ask them who it is for proof.

When I sit in the power, the energy builds up so much that I can feel it very strongly. It is intense and brings along other feelings with it.  I know from experience exactly what it is and the difference between the two.power

Try experimenting with the feelings and ask questions of spirit.  If you are new to it all then you can just ask for it to go away. It usually does. If you feel it often, then it may be time for you to develop, or develop more.

For more information on this topic, please email e at the link above.

There are sadly,  many times when I have sat in a church and heard the speaker tell someone something bad. This is sometimes very serious. None so serious as the speaker telling someone that a loved one is going to die!!

Firstly, no one can tell you that a person is going to die. No one knows except God. When  pur time is up that’s when we go home to spirit. No one knows when this will be.

Please believe me.   Don’t accept it at all. If it happens in a church then complain to the committee. If it is a private reading,  you should warn everyone against visiting the awful person who said it.

Mediums are there to bring upliftment and hope to people. They bring proof of survival from the Spirit World.  They do not come to upset you. They love you. Why would they upset you.

There are a lot of ethics in mediumship. I teach about it in my circles.  Bad behaviour must be stopped and scaring the public is bad behaviour.  Spiritualists must stamp this out.

For any information about this or other topics please email me at the link on this page.

This is a difficult one. My son used to go to church with me when he was only four.  He would sit quietly and read a comic and drink the orange juice supplied by the church president. Happy memories now!

He didn’t seem to be taking too much notice at that time.  He would also like to sit with us in my home circle. Again he just seemed to enjoy what was going on. Although he wasn’t fond of the meditation as he thought nothing was happening.

But, there came a time when he was eight, when things started to happen. At someone else’s home circle he started giving messages which were truly accurate and very detailed. When I asked where he got his information from, he described to me a little spirit girl whose name and age he knew.

He would sit with us and ask the little girl to bring him a message for someone in the circle.  She did!  Again accurate and insightful. Wow, what a gift he had. Friends we sat with thought it remarkable.

But there came a time, as he got older, when he was being bullied at school. He was afraid these bullies may find out about his gift and bully him more. He sat with us less and less and eventually declined to sit again.  Very sad and what  a waste of a remarkable gift.

My son had experienced people around him. He had me and the other experienced mediums who sat in my circle. We were able to look after him and guide him.  The average child does not have that safety net. Though that does not exclude them from a spiritualist church.

I suggest that if you want to take you child to a spiritualist church, take them to the divine Sunday service. There  they will sing, say prayers and send thoughts out to the sick on the healing list.  They will of course see the medium of the day demonstrating their gift.  But they will not get involved that way.

Leave taking your child to circles and specials until they are teenagers, at the very least.  But of course, if they start giving messages, ask for help and guidance at the church.

For more information on this subject please email me at the link above.

When you have been in an awareness and development circle for some time, it may be time for you to move on.  But it is not only time which dictates if you are ready for the advanced circle. It is how far you have developed.  You should not be in too much of a hurry or you will burn out and your gift may leave you.

We do not all develop at the same rate. Some are not mediums they are psychics. Whilst in the awareness circle, it will become apparent if you are mediumsitic.  There is nothing wrong with being a developed psychic. We all have this ability, but some choose to develop it to a high degree. Others do not choose to develop their psychic ability.

The advanced circle is for both mediums and psychics if you are ready for it.  Your tutor or mentor will know if you are ready.  Trust their opinion as they will be the ones who have watched you work and understand your level of development.  They will tell you if you have tried to advance too soon.

If you go into the advanced circle you will find some of it the same, but other things will be different.  Opening up and closing down will always be paramount choose how long you have been in development.  The change will come in the exercises you do and the more intense concentration on giving messages in the circle.

You will be expected to stand up when giving messages, whereas in the awareness circle you probably did not.  You will be shown how to construct your messages and how to put them across.  There will be times when you stand on the platform and work from there.

It is all aimed at making you become a better medium. Better at putting across spirit’s message and better at giving proof of survival. Survival proof is the most important part of a service, and a private reading. You cannot work on a church platform unless you give proof of life after death. Some do but are soon found out.

Private readings will be improved upon. Your tutor will be listening into your one to one readings more than before.  There are ethics involved here. It is most important to put your message across in such a way as to be acceptable to the recipient.

Some phrases and words are not welcome during messages.  Especially, you must not predict. You may only say that the spirit communicator feels that things may improve. Or that answers may come at a particular time.  But only then if the spirit communicator has told you to.  You must not leave the sitter afraid or wondering what is about to happen.

You must never tell anyone that there is a death to come. Or that bad things are about to happen. You must choose your words carefully.  There area lot of  ethics involved when you are a medium.

You must work in love and harmony and bring upliftment to your sitter as well as proof of life after death.

If you don’t find a teacher soon, you’ll live this life in vain. It’s true, you have the buddha-nature. But without the help of a teacher  you’ll never know it.  Only one person in a million becomes enlightened without a teacher’s help.

If, though, by the conjunction of conditions, someone understands what the Buddha meant, that person doesn’t need a teacher.  Such a person has a natural awareness superior to anything taught.  But unless you’re so blessed, study hard, and by means of instruction you’ll understand.

Buddhist Quote