Have you tried communicating with your loved ones after they have gone on to the higher side of life? It can seem a daunting task when you are so caught up in the sadness that such loss brings.
I know all you want to do is feel them, and hold them, and talk to them just as before. You can, but in a different sense, and all it takes time and practice. I can help guide you to develop your gifts so that it becomes almost second nature to you.
I am not suggesting you live in the past, that you replace the living with the dead, or that you should not move on in any way. What I am suggesting is that you come to a realisation that we are all spirit and that as spirit we can all communicate with each other, albeit in a different way.
We came here from our home in the Spirit World to learn the lessons that only human life could teach us, in order to help our eternal evolution. When our lessons are learned and our time is up, we go back home.
There is no beginning and no end to communication, or to life. It is eternal evolution!