Medium and spirit guide understand each other and make an ideal partnership. They use a unique form of shorthand between them. A lot of those new to the paranormal do not understand this and are unsure how it works. Therefore, forgive me for repeating the words below.
What sitters and seekers must realise when having readings with mediums, is that communication between guide and medium is a very personal one. What a particular colour and symbol may mean to one guide medium partnership, will be totally different to another partnership.
The reason being is that they have worked and developed together, and know just how each others mind works. The guide knows exactly just how to put the meassage across to the medium.
If my guide needs me to know that someone is being childlike, they show me a daisy. It may be different for another medium. The important thing to remember here is what it means to the medium who is relaying the communication. It has been set up this way to get across the correct spirit message for you.
Spirit know when you have a reading arranged, even before you do. They know how the medium works and set up things accordingly. Don’t make the mistake of placing your own meaning on things. Listen to the mediums explanation.
A rose may have a memory for you, but if the medium is alerted to the colour, then the mediums meaning for that particular colour is also a message. If you place your own, or another mediums, meaning on this, it will change the intended message.
The meanings given by your reader are the correct ones for that particular sitting.