If you have decided to consult a medium for a private reading, there are a few things you should remember. Obviously the first important thing is to only go to a medium who has been recommended to you.
Once your appointment is made you should go along with an open mind and send your love out to the spirit world before you go and when you get there, during the reading.
You may have in your mind who it is you want contact with, but don’t just have the one person in mind. There are many reasons why a particular spirit may not be able to communicate, and you can read about them in my earlier posts.
Keeping an open mind and sending out your love helps the communication. It is not all down to the medium. You have to give a bit too. Don’t give information though. Sending out love and positive vibrations helps the flow of the communication.
During the sitting answer the medium when she/he asks if you understand, or if you know what she means. Don’t chatter, just keep it short and sweet and it will not get in the way of the communication.
Remember not to say yes if the answer is really no. This may seem obvious, but some people think if they say no, they may get more. It does not work like that. Honesty is really important from you and from the medium.
Try to stay calm and relaxed, and then you will be able to think better when the medium asks if you recall certain events. You may not realise at first who the medium is describing or talking about. By remaining calm and relaxed things may suddenly click.
You will not be able to remember everything and jusut beacuse you cannot think right there and then, it does not mena it is wrong. Sometimes things come back to you later when you are sat quietly at home.
There will sometimes persons you cannot recall, but later when you are telling a family member about it, they may be able to fill in the blanks. On occasion it may be a long time before you realise what the message really meant.
Enjoy your reading and the upliftment it brings along with the personal memories it may rekindle. And please thank spirit later for their input.
As always, if you have any questions, please email them to me.