There is only one aim of a mediums message. It is to prove that there is life after death!
There are lots of psychics and card readers, crystal ball gazers and the like. These hint at fortune telling and sometimes they do actually say that they can tell the future.
A medium worth their salt, would never mention fortune telling, or infer that they can tell your future. They are not interested in whether or not you may be going to win the lottery, or find a rich boyfriend.
The only thing important to a medium when giving you a reading is that they can bring you really good information from your loved ones, in the spirit world. This information should prove to you who it is coming from and that they know you and your life.
The loved ones may offer advice on your life’s problems and send healing if it is needed. All the information should prove to you that they are still around, albeit in the spirit world. They can still watch over and care for you. They can inspire you and make you feel safe.
All this information proves that they must be still in existence, even though their earthly body has died. When you know for certain that this life is not your only life, it ought to prompt you to live your life in a way appropriate.
Life is not for living just for today it is for learning lessons that will last you an eternity!