There are many reasons why people turn their interest to psychic matters or begin a spiritual search. One of the main reasons, in my experience, is bereavement.
There is nothing more likely to kindle a spiritual unfoldment than a grieving person, looking for the meaning of life after they lose a loved one.
This is exactly what brought me into it. My Grandmother passed over to the spirit world leaving me saddened and shocked. She was only 63 and my friends had grans and grandpas who were in their 70s and 80s. Why my Gram?
My gram had an interest in all things of a psychic nature. It intrigued her very much and she passed her interest along to me.
I started my search because I needed to get in touch with her. It’s a bit ironic that gram was one of the latter people to contact me. I was given lots of spirit messages at first, but they were about other people in the spirit world. Some of them I knew and others, my mother used to fill in the blanks for as they were before my time, as they say!
Once I did start to get communication with her, via other mediums, she gave such wonderful evidence that there was no doubting life after death. I believe it was her communications that helped me along my pathway and kept me on it.
Of course, there is no way I can summon her up, or any other spirit entity for that matter. I have to wait for whoever wants to contact me, not the other way around. There is no way you can call up a particular spirit, as they only contact us when they need to.
Those who tell you that they can get you whoever you want, are not being entirely truthful!