Most of my posts come about in response to my readers questions and queries. This one is no exception. I often get this question asked what happens certainly does vary from medium to medium, but I think there is a definite thread running across them.
I will use a private reading as my example, giving myself up as the medium. The best way is always to use my own experience. Read previous pots on my blog for actual reading examples though, for further insight.
When you get to the medium you determine to give yourself and your love to the sprits who may be awaiting you. Stay as open minded as possible, this is not to say be gullible!
Give your first name if you wish but do not offer up any further information as it will get in the way of any reading and ultimately be no proof to yourself.
The medium will tune in to her/his higher consciousness and hopefully tune in to the spirit loved ones you are wanting communication with. Don’t expect anyone in particular and then you will not be disappointed.
The medium will pass on the communication to you and should keep to what the spirits are saying or showing so as not to distort the message.
You ought just to answer yes, no, or I don’t know what you are talking about. This way their will be no feeding the medium. Feeding does not help either of you and certainly not the spirit who is communicating.
You want to look for proof that it is a particular loved one who is watching over you. This may entail something about them self, to prove who they really are. Something about what is going on around you and with your everyday life. This is to prove they are watching over you and know what is going on .
Also, you may be given something you cannot place there and then. This could be a specific thing which you may find out about when asking relatives. This may also be something specific that is about to happen in your life and will prove to you that this particular spirit is still around you.
All in all it should give you a little story which all makes sense. The reading should prove life after death to you as that is what mediumship is about. If it does not then maybe you have the wrong reader. Good hunting!!