If you decide to have a private reading with a medium, here is what you can expect to happen.
You will probably both sit together in a quiet room and the medium will link in to the spirit world, and tell you about the communication from your loved ones.
Most mediums like to say a short prayer before asking for help and guidance from the spirit world, and again afterwards, to thank the spirit world for the communication.
The medium should not ask you any questions, other than “Do you understand this?”, “Can you place that?”, or similar phrases. You should not be asked any probing questions. If the medium does begin to question you, rather than giving you proof, I suggest you get up and leave. You could of course use the phrase favoured by many Spiritualists, ‘You tell me, you are the medium!’ That usually has the desired affect.
You should never give out information to someone who is giving you a reading. Nor should you give a reason for having the sitting when ringing up to make an appointment. You don’t even have to give your name, except maybe your first name, out of politeness.
At the sitting, yes and no should be the only words you need to use, apart from the occasional, ‘I don’t know what you mean’. Any genuine medium will certainly not want you to feed them information, as it will get in the way of the incoming message.
You should be as open minded as possible, relax and listen to the messgae. If afterwards you have questions to ask then it should be alright to do so. It is of course also ok to fill in the blanks for the medium if you like. The medium will be happy to accept feedback.
Enjoy your sitting and I wish you lots of proof of life after life.