When a loved one has passed over to the spirit world, I know all you want to do is feel them, and hold them, and talk to them just as before. It is no longer possible to feel their physical presence or see their physical body but it is still possible to communicate with them albeit through another person.
You may be able to learn to do this yourself with practice, or you may find out that you can do it already. If not, then you can still get communication from them via a good medium. You can do this by going to see one privately, on the recommendation of a trusted friend or relative. Otherwise, you could go along to a meeting at a spiritualist church or hall where a medium is demonstrating clairvoyance.
If you plump for the private consultation, then you are more likely to get a longer reading. This reading may or may not include a message from your recently ‘lost’ loved one. Sometimes when loved ones first pass over they are unable to communicate. It may take them a while to adjust to their new circumstances before they are ready to get in touch.
If it is not possible for the recently passed over loved to communicate themselves, they may pass communication to you via another spirit personality. It all depends how much evolved the spirit was before it’s earthly existence. Some already know how to communicate and therefore they get in touch pretty quickly. If they had no experience, they will have to learn, much the same as we have to learn here. Therefore, you may have to wait a while.
When you go for a consult, it is no good asking for just the one person to come through, as you cannot call up any spirit. You have to ask for communication and then wait and see who comes through. In my experience, it is best not to get into any conversation with the medium before your reading. Wait until afterwards to ask any questions and before divulging any information.
Any medium worth their salt would not ask you any questions. It would get in the way. A medium has to keep a clear head and so anything you talk about is a hindrance. Just say yes, no, or, I do not know what you mean, in answer to anything the medium says. It is best for all three of you, you, the medium, and the spirit entity in the long run.
If you choose not to go for the private reading then you could go along to a meeting and the medium may come to you and pass on the communication from spirit. Again, do not feed the medium, just keep your responses short and to the point as I have suggested above.
I am not suggesting that you live in the past, tor hat you replace the living with the dead, Neither do I suggest that you don’t move on with your life. What I am suggesting, is that you come to a realisation that we are all spirit and that as spirit we can all communicate with each other, albeit in a different way than on the earth plain.
We all are SPIRIT and came here to this earthly life, from our home in the Spirit World, to learn the lessons that only human life could teach us, in order to facilitate our eternal evolution. When our lessons are learned and our time is up, we go back home. However long or however short the earthly time. We have no say in that.
Remember, there is no beginning and no end to communication, or to life. Life is everlasting.