If you have read the previous two posts, you will now understand more about what to expect from a private consultation with a genuine medium.
Of note is the difference between the medium’s message and the cold readers efforts. A medium has to give lots of unique evidence. It has to be a collection of things which the sitter and their family can uniquely place with their spirit loved one.
Generalisations such as ‘a man who had a heart attack’ or ‘a woman who had trouble with her legs’, do not constitute, in themselves, proof of anything. If you give unique proof and also include the man and woman, then it is good. All the information given has to come together to build up the jigsaw puzzle.
Cold readers cannot possibly match this unique evidence and you need to be aware of this if you decide to have a private reading.
Look upon a sitting as being told a story. A story that, when it all comes together, only fits you, your family, and your friends as a whole. Some others may be able to take parts of the message, as with the above mentioned man and woman, but only you should be able to understand the full story.
We all know a John and a David, so too a Gill and a Carol. We all know of someone who passed with a heart attack or a lung disease. But put these into your unique set of circumstances and it makes all the difference.
If the John passed with lung disease and you are told he also lived on a farm and was connected to Mary, who just happens to be your mother, then this is unique to you. These are not details which a cold reader would come up with, nor indeed a psychic reader.
What makes the medium’s message so special is that the information comes from spirits and the spirit world; from your loved ones who have crossed over. They lived in your unique life and therefore know all about your circumstances. This also makes them able to offer advice on your current problems.
If you are looking for proof of survival of the spirit, a medium is what you need. Choose with care.