On one of our trips to Canada, I was asked to give a private sitting for a lady. Here is the way this lady reviewed the reading I gave. This lady sent me a thankyou letter with the following review and told me I could place it on my websits. So here I share it with you.
A Canadian Lady writes: My Discernment
I did see a medium in the beginning of my journey…(actually two – but the first one was a fake and I recognized it immediately). The second medium I met was from England – and my meeting her was a story within itself so I’ll save that experience for a book.
But just to give you an example of the things this woman is blessed with…the knowing she has and can share with the bereaved, I will tell you about our meeting and what she told me about the death of my son and what was going on around him at the time. I hope you enjoy this journey to the unknown – I know it changed my life forever:
As Barbara & I sat down in the comfort of my girlfriend’s home, I immediately sensed that this lady was very kind, compassionate & grand motherly in nature. I sensed she was a good entity.
Part of my reading with Barbara Biggin
She saw a white car (Trevor had a white car)
She saw a ‘posh’ car (Trevor had a BMW)
She saw a little old lady with her arm around a young man. She looks to be about 70 (would have to be my grandmother).
She saw my grandmother’s place very neat (Grandma even lined up her silverware in the drawer…I’m talking the daily silverware all fanned out) She loved a place for everything and very neat. She says she is taking care of Trevor.
She asked if another child in the family (a boy) has passed? (yes, my grandmother lost a grandson in 1994 at the age of 24 (my cousin – Johnny).
Trevor was talking about the pride in his car (Trevor wouldn’t stop working on it or talking about it, or washing it). Ximi and Trevor were always over, with Ximi inside the car, listening to music and watching her man work on the car.
Trevor is very annoyed (he’s talking now) about someone who is bothering me…he says “shut the door on their way out” (I just shut the door on someone close to me).
Trevor asked if I had a problem with the vacuum cleaner yesterday. (This was a huge hit…I don’t EVER vacuum – but I had to the day before when I spilt something all over…I kicked that damn machine all over the place before I finally gave up)…the medium said Trevor was laughing.
Barbara mentioned a beige cameo (I have one hanging over my bed)
Trevor was speaking…he had so many plans. He moved she thought; he appeared or was relaying homesickness (he moved to Edmonton 2 weeks before he died).
He was an old soul who lived each day to the fullest (anyone who knew him knows that is true). He has a ‘wicked sense of humour (Trevor’s trademark)
She asked does the 23 or 28th mean anything? He died on the 28th of June. She said a young lady was with him in the car (yes, his wife, Ximi)
She saw damage to his head (yes 3 skull fractures)
She said the young lady had glass on her face (yes, see accident photo’s)
She saw someone pulling her out.
She said they couldn’t get Trevor’s door open…was it a long two door car? (yes – and they couldn’t get him out as the flames were eating him).
Trevor was relaying that when they finally got him out of the car, the emergency crew put a thing around his neck. She said Trevor was watching all this but he was floating above it all, unaware of what was going on except that he was worried about the lady in the car. His spirit was out and watching, but he was still alive.
She saw them go to two different hospitals (yes, Trevor went to the burn hospital – Ximi went to another) Trevor was above the operating table, watching what was going on She said Trevor is saying he heard the nurse ask the doctor if they should get a ‘wrap’ for him. The doctor said no, there is no point. (That meant nothing to Barbara, it did to me – Trevor had 3rd degree burns to 80 percent of his body).
He had no concern for himself. He felt no pain, just worried about the lady. He was floating and unaware of what was going on. Not knowing he was dying.
He was worried/questioned something about a watch. (See Ximi’s reply below).
He said something about the glove box.(See Ximi’s reply below).
He said he saw a bunch of doctor’s and nurses putting fluid in him…and at this point he said to self, I wonder why?
He said I am putting something up for a memorial and not to bother – it is not important. And whatever is in that box that makes me cry – to stop it. (We think it might be Trevor’s ashes. They are in a cedar box my brother in law made. I did take Trevor’s ashes to Cultus Lake and I had a nice cry on the bench with my son’s ashes and photo beside me).
The medium asked me if I have a dream catcher. Trevor was trying to get across that word. (I had no idea, but this was cleared up (See Ximi’s reply below).
Suddenly, the medium said, Oh, I feel heat…WAS THERE A FIRE? Until now, she did not mention the fire. THAT IS WHAT I WAS LOOKING FOR – that is why Trevor was talking about the ‘burn wrap’.
The medium said Trevor was relying, “See mom, I’m in good hands” and Barbara saw Grandma again.” Grandma was keeping her arm around Trevor.
Moon River Song…Trevor suggested to listen to the words (see the lyrics below!)
Trevor felt proud he packed so much in his short life (I knew that; two children, a marriage, college and on his way to his new career in Edmonton…plus he had the opportunity to visit Guatemala to ask his love’s dad if he could marry her…not to mention all the other things he’s done in his short life…)
He said he had been homesick but he was happy he moved to Edmonton. He was so excited about his new life with his lady and new job.
He says he’s learning to look at things differently now he has passed over. Values are changing. The session came to a peaceful close. I never felt lighter or closer to God than that moment.
Ximi’s Response to the Reading
Thank you so much for sharing the discernment you received! Was I ever amazed and overwhelmed when I read your email, she was right on! Everything she said about the color of the car, the style, Trevor’s feelings, etc. was so accurate, it’s amazing. It has given me so much peace to know Trevor is being taken care of and, like he said, in ‘good hands’. I must admit that what you wrote about her saying that I was in the car, the glass on my face, going to different hospitals, and me being pulled out really left me speechless. I cried when I read about how Trevor’s soul was still around his body and worrying about me, God I love him so much and I knew he was the angel who made sure I was ok.
About the watch, I want to share this with you since Barbara told you about a watch and a glove box. I gave Trevor a watch for Christmas last year, and he absolutely loved it. A couple of months before the accident, he told me it was broken (one of the handles was completely loose). For his birthday, I wanted to exchange the watch for another one he liked, but he loved it so much he refused to exchange it and said he wanted to have it repaired. We kept meaning to do that, but never had the time. So a few days after we got to Edmonton, he drove to Superstore and found a watch repair store in there, so he dropped it off. Just days before the accident, we went to pick it up but the store was closed when we got there. We went again the next day, and got it back, he was so happy to have it back. Since it was a bit loose on his wrist, he took it off the night of the accident because he didn’t want it to fall off since the place we went to was very crowded.
So, I put it in the glove box….I got it back after I was released from the hospital and I went to the garage where the car (or what was left of it) was. I remembered it was in the glove box and I was sure glad when I found it there. Like you said the book says, there are no coincidences and with all that has happened I’ve truly grown to believe in that as well.
One of Trevor’s favourite movies (and his favorite book which he loved talking about) was Dream catcher (by Stephen King), we actually saw it at one of the theatres in Langley (Colossus) a couple of weeks after we got married and I saw it again when I went to the movies here a couple of weeks after I came back. The movie is about four friends who have been friends since childhood and who met a boy who they called Duddits. Duddits was special, he was gifted in many ways although he was brain damaged. The movie is called Dream catcher because Duddits made a dream catcher for his friends. It was a sort of net with beads that was shaped as several circles, and each circle represented one of his friends. He used it to keep evil spirits away from his friends. I don’t know if this has anything to do with what the medium might have seen, but it came to mind right away when I read that question. Trevor and I talked for weeks about that movie and he kept telling me about how it differed from the book, I loved listening to it and I kept asking him about it. So much, that I began reading the book but I never got to finish reading it.
You know, I had never told anybody about this because I never knew whether if it was just something in my head or if it was something that is really meant to comfort me. Whenever I’m alone in my room or in my house, I always have SUCH a strong feeling of a presence around me. You know, like when you’re in a house and you’re not alone, you can feel you’re not alone. Well, I’ve felt like that so many times lately! And the beautiful thing is that I’m not scared at all, and I’m not upset at all, on the contrary, whenever I experience that feeling I’m overwhelmed by so much peace and joy in my heart. I too feel much more peaceful after having read about your experience with this second medium, and I thank you so much for sharing it with me Mom.
Moon River Song Lyrics
Moon River, wider than a mile,
I’m crossing you in style, someday
Oh dream maker, you heart breaker
Wherever you’re goin’, I’m goin’ your way,
Two drifters, off to see the world, There’s such a lot of world to see
We’re after the same rainbows end,
Waitin’ ’round the bend,
My Huckleberry friend,
Moon River, and me!
Moon River, wider than a mile,
I’m crossing you in style, some day . . .
Two drifters, off to see the world,
There’s such a lot of world to see,
We’re after the same rainbows end,
Waitin’ ’round the bend,
My Huckleberry friend,
Moon River, and me!
Of note is the fact that this reading took over one hour. There was much much more information and proof which came through. The above is just a brief example which Trevor’s mum wanted to share. I personally got a great deal of pleasure from giving this reading and will never forget it.