I have often been asked how I receive the communications that I have from the spirit world. The spirits use me as a sort of go between. This is not unlike being a sort of translator between the spirit entity and the person for whom the sitting is being given.
I am clairvoyant, and therefore, I get most of my messages in a sort of picture form. Spirits flash the image of a person, event, or building etc into my head and it is a bit like watching a TV inside my brow. The images do not stay for long and I would expect that most mediums miss a lot of the infomation as it comes and goes so quickly, but whilst it lasts it is very clear.
I also hear voices. This comes fleetingly as though someone is talking in my head, and again I have to be alert so that I do not miss it. Sometimes it comes as more of a thought into my head.
The other sense at work is clairsentience. This helps me pick up the feelings and emotions being given to me. I also feel the ‘sense’ of pain, which is often to do with the spirits ailments or the pains felt around the time of passing over to the higher side of life. It is not the same as enduring the pains, thankfully, but just the sense of it. It might be that I fleetingly get a sense of pain in my chest, if the spirit passed with heart problems. The sense of pain in and around the lungs, or the urge to cough, has an obvious meaning too.
Ultimately, all the pictures, thoughts, words, and emotions, have to be put together as if it were a jigsaw puzzle. This again is not easy but it has to be given in a way which the sitter will understand. Sometimes, the spirit may use symbolic signs and this involves using my knowledge as it has to be a symbol which I understand, in order to give it to my sitter.
Maybe this explanation will help you understand why it is important that the sitter speaks as little as possible. Apart from yes and no, anything else will interfere with the medium’s flow of information and the collating of it. It a great partnership with the sitter, the medium, the spirit world, and last but not least, the medium’s spirit guide, who helps it all happen.
I often feel quite elated when really good information comes through. I also often feel bewildered whilst trying to keep up with the information. It is a partnership which has taken 25 years of hard work. Worth every minute of it in my humble opinion.