In answer to your requests, I am writing about some readings I have given. I will keep the names of the sitters private by using pseudonyms.
This first one appeared to be an ordinary (not that any communication with spirit can ever be described as ordinary) reading from my perspective, but turned out to be a bit more special.
I always say to my sitters: ‘Just answer yes or no,’ or, ‘I don’t know what you mean,’ and ‘Do not feed me any information as this will only get in my way and spoil the reading.’ Once things get into my mind they get in the way of what is coming through; it is hard then to focus properly on what is coming through from the spirit world. Therefore, some good proof of survival can be ruined.
Michelle and I sat together and a man came through giving me evidence to relate to her. He gave a name and information to do with his passing. Several others came through, bringing their own personal information, but this man stayed with us throughout.
The communicators gave evidence about themselves and their loved ones, but also proceeded to tell Michelle about the happenings in her own life and to give her reassurances about the things troubling her. Michelle throughout stayed tight lipped and a little too straight faced. I was beginning to think that maybe she wasn’t happy with the reading, although it felt good to me and she gave mostly yeses.
As I brought the reading to a close I felt there was unfinished business. I heard myself unexpectedly asking Michelle if there was a question she wanted to ask me before I closed down. This is really unusual for me as I usually insist on no questions until I have finished the reading altogether.
Michelle told me that the man who had been with us the whole time was in fact her dad. She said everything I related about him was correct and she was happy with the sitting, but she still wanted to know something else.
As Michelle said this I became aware of an urn which seemed to contain ashes. I told her this and asked if her question had something to do with it. She said yes, she wanted to know if what she had done made her dad happy.
I then saw the ashes being sprinkled into the sea. I told Michelle this and asked her if that’s what they had done with them. She said yes, but still wanted proof her dad was happy with this. In my head I was asking Michelle’s dad to give her the proof she needed.
Immediately her dad showed me that as the ashes were scattered, Michelle and her family all threw ‘blue flowers’ into the water after them. This brought Michelle to tears. They were tears of joy. I explained that I had asked her dad to give proof that he was happy with the way Michelle and the family had scattered his remains. Him showing me the blue flowers had given her this full proof she needed.
Michelle said she felt so much better knowing that she had her dad’s approval. She left smiling broadly and was looking forward to relating the sitting to her family. This is what private readings are all about. Proving the survival of the spirit after physical death to the loved ones left behind.